Welcome to my blog

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Welcome to my blog

 

 

Well, I can’t say I know what I’m doing because for me, this is personal therapy.  Some things have/are/will be happening in my life that lead me to do this.  Some events even forced me to take this route of expression.  What I have written here is for me and no one else.  If you read it, only be sure everything written on these pages is not about you or someone you know.  The characters and names have been changed to protect the innocent and dead.  Living characters may bear an resemblance to or from real people, but are fictional characters.

The Pisces man is the last sign in the zodiac and considered to be an ‘old soul.’ Pisces men are torn between the spiritual realm and the real world of materialism. Pisces men may never seem entirely at ease as a result of these pulling forces.

The Pisces man is intuitive to the extreme and possesses superb intuitions. He is quick to take on the problems of others and has a hard time saying no, even when he should.

Not quick to judge nor judging on outward appearances, Pisces looks into the soul of a person to see who he or she truly is. A Pisces man is warm hearted, caring, and deeply sensitive. He is a true charmer, full of charisma.

The Pisces man is a true romantic in every sense of the word. He likes to make a woman’s dreams come true; lavishing her with everything her dreams are made of; unfortunately he usually doesn’t have the financial means to do so.

Pisces men are often unsuccessful in career ambitions as they look for the easy way to do things, not realizing there is no easy way. The Pisces man is loyal, romantic, generous, compassionate, kind, and sensitive. He’ll give you everything he has – even if it’s not much.

Love with a Pisces man will result in him giving freely of his time, energy, and emotions to love and please you. He has a hard time maintaining a relationship with one woman. He tends to choose women who are not suited for him resulting in turbulence and chaos in his love life. He falls in love easily but his perception of what he needs and wants in a relationship change; sometimes quickly and without warning.

One of my greatest fears was never finding true love and end up in an un-fulfilling relationship or even worse end up alone. Relationship expert Kara Oh managed to allay many of the fears I had about men in her internet bestseller called Men Made Easy . I am a big fan of Kara Oh’s ebooks but I found “Men Made Easy” really stood out from the rest. It is one of the most talked about and most successful of all her books because it has helped so many women find what they want in men.

Powerfully emotional, intuitive, creative and caring, the Pisces man is sensitive and often your most trusted friend. Often exceptionally attractive, his most endearing traits are his humility and love of romance.

Spiritual, mysterious, imaginative and idealistic this man is one of the dreamers of the zodiac. He senses and feels things which other less sensitive folk miss, making him perhaps seem a little psychic at times. This can be applied in many directions, for example he may be a natural emotional healer, creative artist or astute businessman.

The symbol for Pisces is two fish moving in opposite directions, which represents the conflicting desires of flesh and spirit. This is a battle of self indulgence versus self denial, and balancing these two forces is no easy task. Some Pisces are attracted to drama, art, creativity or fantasy in an attempt to escape from the gritty reality and frequent disappointments of life.

The Pisces man often is of the view that the best route to finding inner peace is to give to others, and in many respects this is the most generous and selfless sign. Highly sympathetic, compassionate, self-sacrificing, intuitive and unassuming, he may absorb emotions from the environment around him, often becoming happy or depressed based on the mood of others. As such he may do far better when with optimists than pessimists. He tends to give a piece of himself to anyone he loves, and gets a lot of satisfaction from helping and serving others.

He is more likely to think with his heart than his head, tending to dislike confrontation or hurting others in any way, and often having difficulty saying no, or leaving bad situations or relationships. At times he prefers to just ‘go with the flow’ and friction of any kind may drain his energy.

The net result of these traits is sadly that the Pisces man is easily taken advantage of and manipulated by the uncaring, which can create a vicious cycle of lowered self worth and increased need for approval typically from the very people who are bad for him. For this reason although he typically makes an attractive lover to most other signs, he is compatible with relatively few.

One of Pisces greatest life lessons is to learn to be a little selfish, in order to better choose who deserves their help and love. In this way they can transform from a martyr to the strong, to a savior of the weak.

The Pisces man is difficult to pin down, most of his true feelings are hidden. He is attracted to anything stress free and without a competitive edge because he hates restriction but on the other hand, he is also attracted to things that stir his emotions, including women. Pisces man is notorious for choosing the wrong woman, he tends to be unlucky in love and have dating relationships full of peril.

When confronted with complicated issues, he tends to retreat into his dream world and wears his “rose colored glasses”. This is why Pisces man can be very temperamental and pretend there is nothing wrong when your relationship is on rocky ground. When life is not going so well, he can be very hard on himself and very self destructive so it is better for him to live in denial.

The Pisces male needs a firm, strong woman to guide him because he is very indecisive and is known for sitting on the fence. The woman has to take the lead in the dating relationship. This need for nurturing is often what attracts women, women love to make him feel good and protected, sort of like a mother’s instinct.

The mystery of the Pisces male makes dating him unlike any other astrology sign, nothing is ever cut-and-dry, there is always the element of the unknown and a slight unreachable quality that keeps a woman’s interest. If you like drama in your dating relationship, the Pisces man is for you. Your ultimate goal will be to be invited into the secret realm of his life, where he experiences things and plans ideas that no one on the outside will ever know about. To be invited into the Pisces man’s mind is like being invited into another world, you can be part of his exclusive bubble and both can feel safe, warm and secure. He will protect you and cherish you and you will have a fulfilling romantic partner because he has an amazing ability for love. This is the ultimate goal in a long term relationship and this is very difficult to achieve. It takes the right amount of patience, tolerance and acceptance. Also you have to show your man kindness and sympathy because as the sign of self-undoing, he is very hard on himself and sometimes lacks motivation.

The Pisces man is full of a complex and contradictory charm that surprises, baffles, seduces and irritates at the same time. His eyes pass through you without seeing you, giving him a mysterious and far-off look. The Pisces man seems to be living in a parallel world and the details of the day-to-day life bore him.

The Pisces man’s intelligence (amazing, sometimes) listens to enigmatic mechanisms from which logic seems to be excluded. It’s more appropriate to say that he functions according to his intuition. If the Pisces man has a dilemma, he finds it hard to decide because of his impression that all the options are correct and wrong at the same time.

One of the keys to his behavior is the fact that, to the Pisces man, everything is relative. He has an original relation to the material sphere, especially to money: either he is not interested in it or he is very good at making it; however, he spends it on useless things but with a special significance to him. His value scale is completely different from that of the ordinary people. Trying to define and establish a pattern for the Pisces man is meaningless.

Pisces man’s soul is complex, just like the soul of an alembic that distillates sensations and emotions, dreams and aspirations, passion and fluid impressions. Because of the strong sensorial impact on the Pisces man, love has an important place in his life and he lives it in its sublime form, experiencing the mystic love, or in its most debasing and abject form. Love can be the pandemonium or the heaven of his life.

Deep in his soul, the Pisces man carries an ocean of feelings. An ocean, because his love seems not to know any limits, qualitatively or quantitatively. The fact that the famous Casanova was born under the sign of Pisces shouldn’t surprise us, nor the fact that the equally famous Don Juan Tenorio, although he was not of this sign, had four planets in Pisces at birth!
In his youth, the Pisces man is not aware that through his love he is in fact trying to meet heaven, he is searching for God. However, eventually this secret reveals to him and it is not a wonder that this sign gives so many mystics to the world.
The Pisces man is the dreamiest man alive! These men are highly spiritual in one way or another and can also be quite eccentric. I think that most women find it rather easy to fall for a Pisces male as they are highly perceptive, intuitive and even psychic, and let’s face it  girls love all that. Especially as woman have a natural intuition that seem’s to have bypassed most men. So finding such a man is quite refreshing, and a little spooky too it has to be said!

In a relationship you couldn’t find a more gentle lover. The Pisces man will know how to touch you and make you feel like your floating on a cloud. Sex plays an important role in this man’s relationship too. They are always bonded spiritually to their partner and every time he makes love the bond get’s stronger. Eroticism is a part of the Pisces mans personality and therefore fantasies and love making is a way for him to express himself fully. And it is nice to be able to have someone who you can sit with and talk with for hours about your inner most feelings. A lot of men you can’t, this one you can and for that reason alone he is great.

Being a very feminine sign can cause some issues with these men. They are feminine in the way that they can express emotion and their power to feel and be intuitive, but a lot of them are quite masculine as well, on the outside. But I feel you can tell a Pisces man because of this feminine streak. You certainly won’t find many, if any of them, at a football match with a can of lager in one hand and a clenched fist in the other waiting for a fight to start. Or on a Construction site wearing a hard hat and covered in dirt. No, these men are a not at all like that. In fact a lot of Pisces don’t really like being a Pisces. Do you think it is easy being a man who is so very sensitive and emotional. Perhaps it is a little easier nowadays than it would have been in the past, but still men are supposed to act like ‘men’. Whatever that means? This is where the depression can come from and angst. They are trying to run away from themselves.

Due to this weaker side in say half the Pisces men,  tend to go for women who are much stronger than themselves. And this will only lead to disappointment in the end.

What this man needs is a soul mate, someone who he can become united with both physically and mentally. I don’t think it is always so easy for the Pisces man, this world can be cruel and full of people that will lead you on only to drown you in disappointment. For anyone out there who is with one of these dreamy men, let me know what your experience has been like, I’d be very interested to know!

 

Books that may offer some good advice on these type issues.

 

 

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